Clap for Yourself First
We’re taught to wait.
Wait for the grade, the promotion, the nod of approval. Wait for someone else to tell us we’re worthy before we dare to believe it ourselves. But what if the applause you’ve been waiting for has been in your own hands all along?
Think about it. Every time you finish something; a project, a poem, a workout, even just surviving a hard day, you instinctively look outward. Did anyone notice? Did anyone care? And if no one does, the achievement feels smaller, almost invisible.
But here’s the truth: the act itself was the victory. The courage to start, the discipline to finish, the resilience to keep going, those are claps you owe yourself.
I remember Chinedu, a colleague who ran his first marathon. No cameras, no cheering crowd, just a handful of strangers at the finish line. He crossed it, exhausted, and for a moment looked around, waiting for someone to celebrate him. Then he laughed, raised his own hands, and clapped for himself. That sound, his palms echoing in the cold morning air, was louder than any stadium roar.
Because self-applause isn’t arrogance. It’s acknowledgment. It’s saying: I see me. I honor me. I celebrate me.
And here’s the paradox: when you clap for yourself, others eventually join in. Not because you begged for it, but because confidence is contagious. People are drawn to those who don’t outsource their worth.



Confidence is contagious. People are drawn to those who don’t outsource their worth. Thats it…. Keep writing
Indeed, Chibueze. Indeed.